unconditional love

I want more than anything to love my wife "unconditionally." But let's be honest, do we really know what that means? What about the couple who starts out so "in love" but in time they fall "out of love." The truth is then, they never really loved their spouse unconditionally, but rather it was based on emotions and feelings. If I am to love my wife as Christ loved the church, then my love for my precious wife Keri has to be unconditional. I'm doing my best to walk that out, to let love guide every thing I act and react to. I am truly a work in progress.